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¨èImagine a nicely dressed ¨çcouple seated at an elegant table in a sophisticated restaurant. They are talking over a matter of ¨égreat concern to both of them. At the beginning of their conversation he is cordial and relaxed and she ¨êis smiling warmly. ¨ëAs the evening progresses and individual intentions are brought to the surface, the man begins to edge up on his seat and his attitude takes on an edge as well. Her once engaging smile draws down into a thin, tense expression. Each of them is now steadily sending special signals to the other. These invisible unspoken messages are saying, "Don't push me too far;" and behind these silent messages lurks what both of them know is the real bottom line-- ¨ìDon't make me use force.

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* dressed -- ¿ÊÀ» ÀÔÀº
* elegant -- ¿ì¾ÆÇÑ
* sophisticated -- ¼¼·ÃµÈ
* cordial -- Ãæ½ÉÀ¸·ÎÀÇ, ¼º½É¼ºÀÇÀÇ
* relaxed -- ´À½¼ÇÑ, ±äÀåÀ» Ǭ
* edge up -- Á¶±Ý¾¿ ´Ù°¡°¡´Ù
* signal -- ½ÅÈ£
* progress -- ³ª¾Æ°¡´Ù



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